if I were younger I would consider this, for my age (39) I still look OK, but I am done with all that in my life- sometimes I even WISH my husband had a 2nd to take the pressure off me to be everything and DO everything,
Sorry to say, but indeed that is a FAR too much for a new True Christian wife for young True Christians like myself. A True Christian wife's best age in Finland is 16 years, youngest possible allowed by the law.
However, all is not lost. You might try an elder True Christian gentleman, who has already had young wives and has had lots of children. Those gentlemen might prefer more mature additional wives, even widows or divorced women (which the strictest True Christians would not take).
And we should all remember what Paul says in the Bible about marriage.